Friday, October 3, 2008

"Miscommunication"


See this is why relationships don’t work. “Miscommunication”. Especially between us young folk. Yeah of course at the beginning of the relationship…everthing is great! See but I have found that ppl give off these false impressions that we fall in love with . For example, someone expresses that they love being around you and spends a lot of their time with you. But then over a period of time you get the same way and then they wanna say that you’re too clingy. WTF is that! That’s why we get so caught up with someone and get attached. We lead on someone to think that we are a certain way and then later on we are totally different. In a way that the other will not understand and it causes confusion in the relationship. See we lead on our GF’s/BF”s to think that we want to be with them forever, ok maybe not forever but for a long time lol…but you know that shit aint true. In most cases its starts off as both putting in so much energy and effort into a relationship. Then down the road only one is puttin all their efforts to “make it work”, and the other is acting like a straight up asshole! See this is what gets me. Don’t be with someone for 3 yrs and waste all the time and effort you put in…and all the shit that you been through together. If you didn’t plan on being with them for good. See I guarantee that relationships would work out more smoothly if you be straight with that person from the beginning and let them know how you truly are. Oh and basically what you want out of the relationship. Then that way there will be no surprises later on. Come on people get on the same page with that “person”in your life. Here’s some advice for us yougins…STOP BEING SO DAMN FAKE! LET’S BE REAL OUT HERE! Enough said.



THERE IS ONLY ONE WAY.

2 comments:

Sandra G. said...

This is makes a whole lot of sense Bryant! Kudos babes :)

Perhaps if people learned how to communicate properly there won't be so many problems in a relationship. But both parties will have to possess good communication skills because if only one does that doesn't help much because the other is still lacking.

Tamika said...

Communication is key in all relationships...be honest, and i would have to say observe the person your thinkin of being with for a while be friends first get to know one another before jumping into a relationship